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Commitment

A sermon by Dr. James Flamming
Pastor, First Baptist Church, Richmond, Virginia
Sunday, November 13, 2005

Let me call your attention to Luke the fourteenth chapter. Jesus told a story, a parable. It was about a man who gave a great banquet. Finally everything was ready. Verse 18 says, "But all of those that received invitations began to make excuses. The first said I have just bought a field and I must go and see it. Please excuse me. Another said I've just bought five yoke of oxen. I'm on my way to try them out. Please excuse me. Still another said I just got married, I can't come. The servant came back and reported this to the master. The owner of the house became angry and he said to this servant, go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor and the cripple, the blind and the lame. Sir, what you have ordered has been done but there is still room." This is the word of the Lord.

Few things are more essential and effective than commitment. Show me a life that has no commitment and I will show you a life that has no direction, purpose, or excitement. A life without commitment is like a stream without water. Like a car without gas. Like a computer without an operating system. Like a curriculum without students. Show me a person without commitment and I will show you a life that is absolutely going nowhere. Now commitment is one of the things that sets us apart from all of the rest of God's creation. We're at the time of the year when birds are beginning to migrate southward. Now during the summer months one of those birds did not go up to the registrar bird and say "I'd like to take a course in Spanish during the summer. And then when we fly over Mexico I'll just land there and spend the winter." You see, to be a person is to be made in the image of God and that means choice and commitment. That's what Jesus is calling forth in his parable. Not many responded.

I saw in a national survey...took all of the states of our union. And they surveyed how many regularly attended church on Sunday morning. I was interested and a little distressed that Virginia was close to the bottom. Only eighteen percent of Virginians attend church regularly. That means eighty-two percent are those Jesus was talking about. Not many show up you see it's inconvenient. And Jesus spoke of one who had bought some property and he had to go see it, that is his business was so important that he had no room for God. Now do you know, there's nothing wrong with buying property. But do you know anybody who buys the property first and then go see it. Signs the contract before ever looking at it? No, no. He gave an excuse not a reason. The second of these bought five pair of oxen. I tell you what let's make it a little more contemporary. Let's talk about buying a car. Okay? Reminds me a little bit of the wife who inherited a great sum of money and the husband went to her and said, “ You know, honey, I’ve always dreamed of being behind the wheel of something that would go from zero to 200 in four seconds.” And she said, “Let me get this straight. You would like something that goes from zero to 200 in four seconds.” He smiled and nodded affirmatively. So she got him a bathroom scale.

Now a third had married a wife. Couldn’t come. Must have been newly married. Because anybody who’s been in it very long knows you need all the help you can get. Besides that you need all the food you can get. A free banquet. You know of all people marriages need love and togetherness and understanding and patience and joy and peace. That’s what the Lord sets at his banquet. All of the made excuses here is the truth, the core truth, nothing but the truth. To follow Christ you have to move something out of the way. It may be an obvious problem like anxiety or worry. Or it may be business or it may be habits or it may be friends. Or it may be that you just don’t think you have time for God and you can handle everything by yourself. But before you turn all of this down. Jesus does not describe the kingdom in terms of convenience. Wanna show you something. Look over there in verse 27. “And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.” Well sometimes, sometimes commitment means coming home. Coming home to where you used to be. One of our distinguished educators in a book speaks of his listening to a group of university professors who were in nice ways, but definite ways looking askance at people of faith. And one of them spoke of it. Went against the grain. Said let me tell you something. Hadn’t been too long ago that I was flipping through the TV and came across a television program. And I stopped for just a little bit and I listened to the scripture. And his interpretation of it. And I decided that I’d look at that scripture and I went to my bookcase and I’d pull off a Bible that I hadn’t looked at in years. And when I opened it up there were some notes from when I was a teenager. And I used to go to youth retreats. I looked at the notes and I looked at the scripture. And all of a sudden I remembered how it used to be. And all of a sudden I remembered what was missing in my life now. I had all the information I needed. I had all the kind of academic education that I could get but I was spiritually dead. And said he to his colleagues on that faculty, it took me awhile but I’m back home.”

Maybe it’s time for you to consider being back home. Oh. You’ve never had a home. Let me tell you about it. The way in which you become God’s family is to receive the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal savior. It is when you commit your life to the Lord. You see, Jesus began his ministry and ended his ministry with a call to commitment. He began with only two words. He ended with only two words. Here are the two words, follow me. He went to his disciples and guess what he didn’t do. He didn’t give them a plan. He didn’t even give them core values nor a belief statement. He said two words, follow me. All of Christianity revolves around the commitment to Jesus Christ.

And the last book, the last chapter of John’s gospel, this is after the resurrection and Jesus is having a final recorded conversation with Simon Peter and Simon Peter’s asking the kind of questions I would ask. What’s going to happen when? Why is this going to happen to this guy? What are you going to do now? And let me paraphrase. This is the Flamming paraphrase. Simon, mind your own business. That’s God business. Here’s yours. Follow me. Let me tell you when you come to the Lord and you follow him, you follow him into the great banquet. The great banquet hall. And the Lord Jesus serves you. Can you imagine? He was not above putting a towel around his waist and over his arm. And he comes to you and he says let me tell you what I’m going to offer you. I’m going to offer you the menu of salvation. The appetizer of hope. The entree of faith. The main course of love. And because you’re going to fail along the way, the dessert of forgiveness. You’re going to walk off and leave that? You’re going to say that’s not for me? Sooner or later in your life you are going to come up to the time when you’re just desperately going to need good news and hope and faith and love and forgiveness. And all of this the Lord himself provides through his cross, his presence, his person and his resurrection. You’re going to walk off and leave that? Let me tell you where home is. Home is when you receive Jesus Christ as your personal savior. Here’s the way he put it. “But as many as received him, to them gave he the power to become part of the family of God.” Home is where the Lord is.

Some of you when it comes to commitment might take a third option. And that third option is bearing your cross. I’ve already read the verse. “And anyone who does not carry his cross...” I’ve been so helped by that, that verse has always kind of bugged me. I’ve never even seen a cross except you know in church, that sort of thing. What did Jesus mean? There’s a Christian of some centuries ago by the name of Francois

Fenelon, a Frenchman, got a hold of this better than anyone I’ve ever read. And he says what Jesus is saying is dear friend, you’re going to have some crosses to carry in your life. And you better get ready for it. And he’s going to say to you, here’s what your options are. You can complain about it. You can wish it wasn’t there. You can pretend it’s not there. You can run away from it. Or you can pick it up and you can carry it like Jesus carried his cross. And when you do you’re going look over to the side and there’s Jesus carrying his cross right alongside of you. And if you stumble remember he stumbled also on the way to Golgotha. Then says Fenelon, something’s going to happen to you. When you’re willing to carry your cross as your own and as partnership with Jesus say I’m part of his team and I’m joining him. Changes you. Something happens inside. The other thing he says is you get strength beyond yourself to carry it.

And I have experienced that when I do this and I do it because Jesus did it. And I do it for Jesus sake that there is a peace that passes understanding that comes from above and settles in the soul.

Some of you walked in here this morning with a heavy load. Tough, tough cross to carry. I wish you didn’t have it from a human point of view. But God knows its there. He hopes against hope you’ll pick it up and carry it out of this place with you and join him because that’s the way to redeem the toughest times of life.

There is a fourth commitment you can make and that is the commitment of affirmation. The affirmation of love, the affirmation of thanksgiving, the affirmation that hey, I don’t need to begin the journey because I’m already a Christian. And I don’t need to come home because I walk with the Lord everyday. And the Lord has blessed me and I don’t have a heavy load and I don’t have a cross that’s just so heavy to carry right now. What do I commit? I’ll tell you what you commit. You commit your love. You commit your wonderful, wonderful thanksgiving and gratitude. I tell you what it is like. It’s like Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. You who are mothers and you who are fathers when it comes, you’re mother you get flowers, candy. You’re a father you get cards or ties on occasion but mostly you get cards. Let me tell you about cards. They don’t make you anymore committed. I mean you were committed before you got that card. And it doesn’t make the person who sent it even more committed. I don’t think so. You know what that person who sent it is doing. That person who sent it is saying I love you. Thank you. Thank you for all you’ve done. Thank you for being who you are. I went through mine this week in preparation for this, to illustrate it. My father’s day cards from last June. Now in our family I know there’s a Grandfather’s Day but I don’t even know when it is. So I get not only cards from my sons but I get them from my grandchildren. And I pick out three because you see they don’t make me more committed to them. I couldn’t be. It doesn’t make them more committed to me. I don’t think that could be. What it does it says thank you. One of them was a letter...thanks dad for all you have taught me and for all your patience through all of the years. And thank you for not giving up on me when I probably deserved it. And I cried. Another one said...thanks dad. And it was one of these Hallmark cards that some guy or gal in a Hallmark booth put together you know with the cute little verses. But this one I kept. Here’s what it says, “thanks dad for being a dad we can brag about.” And of course one of my granddaughters, “Poppy”, that’s what they call me. Somebody last time I used that, at the front door after, said that isn’t very dignified. And I said listen, having a granddaughter isn’t dignified. “Poppy”. Our relationship means so much to me. Hugs and kisses and more hugs and kisses and I can’t wait to see you. Do you think I was more committed to her after I received that card? No.

Did it matter to me? You betcha. If I am and earthly father, how much more does the heavenly father respond with tears when we take the time to say thank you. I love you Lord. You’re mine. Thank you for your patience. Thank you for not giving me what I deserve sometimes along the way. One of the commitments even today you could make is simply saying thank you.

 

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